SOME THOUGHTS ON SWITCHING SPANKING ROLES
( From Southern California Spanked Wives )
Recently my husband came in the house with a switch that he had cut from the woods out back. It was considerably thicker than the ones that I usually cut for him to use on me. With a sheepish look on his face he told me that he felt that he needed to be punished for some things that he had recently done.
I was very apprehensive because I
am usually on the
receiving end of the switch
(which I am also made to cut
from the woods out back). But I found out that I was as
good
at dishing it out as I was at taking
it! He was really twitching toward the
end of the "punishment" Although I
must admit that it turned me on switching rolls (no
pun intended), I am just hoping that this does not signal a turn in our relationship. I much more
enjoy being the bottom rather than the
top. I have talked with my husband about
this and he assured me that I am the biggest brat
of the two of us and that I will continue to be the one getting the lion share of the
spankings. I am wondering
if any the other spankees in this have had a
similar experience. If so, was it just a fluke, or was it a permanent change?
Beth
Beth,
you'll have to find a balance with him. My
feeling is that once a man starts to acknowledge and explore his
bottomish side it isn't going to be shoved back into Pandora's box
again. It's going to be a permanent part of him but, he
may remain "mostly top" as he says now. After all once
you discovered the joys of being a spankee, how easy
would it be for you to shove it onto the back burner
again?
My husband suddenly
came around to the idea of
bottoming as stress relief a
few months ago. This is a former vanilla who insisted for
over 4 years that he was NEVER going to be the spankee.
Hah! I'm pleased but let me point out, now he is looking for it almost as much or maybe even more than he is looking
to spank me.
Bottoming IS addictive in a good sort of way
and I think the relationship is going to have to shift a
bit. So, enjoy being the
biggest brat of the two of you (but
don't be too
surprised if his brat quotient rises now), and enjoy being the spankee, but do enjoy your new Top role too. I
think it's great that you found it enjoyable. Whatever
the ratio settles out at you both now have a new
dimension to have fun with. Congratulations!
ILSA
LASLOW
While
I don't look down upon men who bottom, being
topped by a man I bottom would kill too much of the kink for
me.
So, the only
spankings I give Andrew was the bratty
ones I sneak upon
him - - a few good swats when he's least expecting it and then I run
since he always insists on
evening the score. But "evening the score" to him is
more
like 50
swats for me for every ONE I managed to lay on him!
Ah well!
It's all in the name of fun!
Becca
